-12 Last year I talked to the children at my son's childcare centre about dogs and the important question, Can I Pat That Dog?
I divided the talk into three parts:
- How to approach a dog
- How to look after a dog
- Dog training and tricks.
I showed photos of happy, fearful and angry dogs and explained to the children that they must ask permission from their carer and the dog's owner before approaching a dog – even a happy looking one.
I used my dog, Harry, a well-trained 8-year-old Labrador, to demonstrate parts two and three. Not surprisingly, the training and tricks proved most popular – closely followed by patting Harry afterwards, the children remembering to ask permission.
Ask the dog, too!
This year I gave a similar talk at the childcare centre, but having learned of the SPOT (Safe Pets Out There) program, I modified part one to include "asking" permission of the dog, too, by interpreting its body language.
Funded by the NSW government, SPOT is a "schools program about pet care and kindness and respect for all animals. It incorporates a specific module about safe behaviour to reduce the incidence of serious dog bites in children."
I added a toy dog to act out body language scenarios from an excellent book, "Can I pat that dog?" (McLaine, Damiani & Power, Angus & Robertson 2004): No, he looks angry, frightened or old. No, he's tied up, on guard, working, eating or sleeping. No, she has puppies. And finally – Yes, he looks happy.
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A Shared Responsibility
Dog owners and parents/carers have shared responsibility to ensure that children are safe around dogs. Dogs must be well trained and under control around children. And children must be taught to ask permission from their carer, the dog's owner and the dog before approaching it!
In most cases, the answer will be yes, and the dog may wag its tail and roll over for a tummy pat like Harry did at the childcare centre, a safe and enjoyable experience for the children and the dog.
© 2007 Robert Fairhead
A middle-aged dad and dog owner, Robert is a writer and editor at Tall And True and blogs on his eponymous website, RobertFairhead.com. He also writes and narrates episodes for the Tall And True Short Reads podcast, featuring his short stories, blog posts and other writing from Tall And True.
Robert's book reviews and other writing have appeared in print and online media. In 2020, he published his début collection of short stories, Both Sides of the Story, and in 2021 his first twelve short stories for the Furious Fiction writing competition, Twelve Furious Months. And in 2022, his second collection of Furious Fictions, Twelve More Furious Months.
Besides writing, Robert's favourite pastimes include reading, watching Aussie Rules football with his son and walking his dog.
He has also enjoyed a one-night stand as a stand-up comic.
This article appeared in the Village Voice Eastern-Harbourside in May 2007 and in my dog club newsletter. The Can I Pat That Dog talk proved so popular, I used it for school holiday programs for several years, until it was time for Harry to retire.